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<description><![CDATA[Seeta Dean is a freelance writer who specializes in internet writing. She is a mother and wife who very much enjoys learning new things.]]></description>
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<title>He's Always Running To Answer Or Get To His Cell Phone So I Won't</title>
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<description><![CDATA[I often hear from people who have concern about their spouse or loved one's use of and secrecy toward their cell phone. I recently heard from a woman who said "every time my husband's cell phone goes off, he makes a mad dash to answer it and then talks in private. I think he's afraid that I'm going to answer it or see who it is from. When I ask him about this, he's says I'm being ridiculous and that he's just trying to keep it from going to voice mail. What's the big deal about it going to voice mail when he's spending time with his wife? Why is he being so secretive? What in the world is going on?" This is such a common situation. I think what people really want to know if his running with such urgency to his phone means that he is cheating or that he is trying to keep something or someone from his wife. And most of the time, the person asking this also has a unsettling feeling that something is wrong. People are often also asking how to best handle this situation.]]></description>
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<title>How Does A Guy Behave When He Is Cheating On You?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 2010 14:11:32 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I believe that many people have a stereotypical idea of how a cheating guy acts that isn't always 100% accurate. People often tell me that when they picture a cheater, they'll picture someone who won't look you in the eye. They envision someone who will shift uncomfortably while looking at the ground. They assume that this man will feed you silly excuses or will suddenly change the way that he's acting toward you. And sometimes, some of these things are accurate. ]]></description>
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<title>My Husband Is No Longer Interested In Sex - Does This Mean He's Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 17 Nov 2010 12:37:03 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently heard from a wife who told me that her husband had not initiated sex for at least a month. This was strange behavior for her husband. Sure, there had been times in the past when they were both busy, stressed, or ill. And during these times, the frequency of sex had dropped off for them. But, it had never gotten to the point where they weren't having sex at all - until now. ]]></description>
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<title>Why Does My Husband Have Two Cell Phones?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 03 Nov 2010 14:01:36 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often hear from women who are troubled by (or have just found out) that their husband or boyfriend has two cell phones. Many are quite suspicious of this and wonder if the second cell phone means that the husband is cheating. There are various reasons that husbands have two cell phones, and only one of them is cheating (although cheating is a common one.) I will discuss this more in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>I Can't Find Proof That My Husband Is Cheating</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 20 Oct 2010 13:01:40 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often hear from wives who tell me that they "know" in their hearts that their husband is cheating, but so far, they can't find any proof. Of course, their husband denies everything and tries to make them think that this is all in their head, so their being unable to come up with concrete proof isn't helping matters. I often maintain that the vast majority of the time, the proof is there if you know where to look. Sometimes, people are not as aggressive as they could be about looking because they are hesitant to really look at or know the truth. Other times, they don't want to be caught. And sometimes, they really are just hoping that they are wrong and wonder that if perhaps they back off, this whole thing might go away. ]]></description>
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<title>Is Texting Other Women Cheating? Here's My Opinion</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 06 Oct 2010 14:11:05 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often hear from people who feel very differently about this topic. I hear from wives and girlfriends who get very upset when they see their husband or boyfriend texting other women. They worry that this will either lead to or is a form of cheating. I also hear from men who think that there is absolutely nothing wrong with them texting other women. ]]></description>
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<title>Should One Spouse Know Who The Other Spouse Is Texting?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2010 14:57:02 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get a lot of correspondence from people who are concerned that their spouse's excessive texting might mean that spouse is cheating. People often ask things like "should I know who my spouse is texting?" Or "if my spouse is secretive about their texting or deleting their messages, does this mean they might be cheating?" And people who have never worried about their loved one cheating on them may find such concerns to be silly or to be an intrusion on someone else's privacy. But to be fair, I have to say that the people who are asking this question are often also seeing other suspicious behavior that is contributing to their concern about the texts. In other words, it's not as if everything else is fine and great and the relationship while the suspicious person is just looking for things that aren't there.]]></description>
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<title>Does A Man Act Different When He Is Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 14 Sep 2010 14:32:04 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often get emails from women who notice a difference in their husband and boyfriend and worry that this difference might mean that he is cheating. The difference may be in his behavior, his appearance, his attitude, his personality, or his routine. But, whatever it is that they notice, most women do notice a change. It may subtle, but it's often there just the same. However, this difference isn't always a negative or stereotypical one. It isn't always what you might expect. I will discuss this more in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>My Husband Is Calling Other Women - Does This Mean He's Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 12:45:04 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently heard from a wife who had noticed a lot of phone numbers on her husband's call log. She also saw and heard him making a lot of cell phone calls to various women. She said she knew he was talking to women because she could tell by the tone of his voice that he was not talking to a man. When she asked him who he was talking to and what he needed to discuss, he would only say that he was talking to friends and coworkers and that she was overreacting.]]></description>
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<title>Is He Cheating If He's Always Texting?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 12:35:21 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often hear from women who can't help but notice that their husband or boyfriend is constantly texting. Many of them find this to be odd. While it's commonly seen as absolutely normal for a woman to regularly text her friends, coworkers and family, this can seem suspicious or odd if a man is always doing the same. People often ask me if their man is constantly texting, does this mean he's cheating too? The answer to this question often depends on the context of the messaging and who the texts are going to.]]></description>
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<title>Why Are Women Always Worried About Their Husband Or Boyfriend's Facebook Account?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2010 12:50:34 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[The other day, I actually had a man comment on my site and ask me why women are becoming increasingly concerned and worried about their man's Facebook account and activities. He commented, in part: "my wife is always trying to look over my shoulder when I'm on Facebook. I think she might even try to log onto my account and read my messages. It annoys me. I'm not doing anything wrong and she should know that she can trust me. ]]></description>
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<title>How Men Act When They Are Cheating</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Aug 2010 13:16:02 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[If I asked you to picture the stereotypical man who was cheating, you might describe someone who is always late, who is cold and distant, and who is presently distracted with activities like hiding his cell phone, and washing his own clothes to hide any evidence of their extracurricular activities. Typically it's thought that this man has one foot out the door of his relationship and isn't currently invested in his wife or girlfriend. And, some of these stereotypical emotions and behaviors are completely accurate. ]]></description>
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<title>How to Ask If Someone's Cheating on You</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 18 Aug 2010 09:18:29 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[It's the conversation that you probably least want to have and dread the most. But sometimes, there's a little voice in the back of your head telling you that something is off about your relationship and that the most likely scenario (based on what you're seeing and feeling) is that your partner or loved one is cheating on you. This can be a tough conversation to have because of the many issues that are often tied up in this issue. There's the chance and the hope that you might be wrong so you want to tread lightly and not make any accusations until you're sure that you're absolutely correct. And, the way that you ask the question may determine whether you get a truthful answer and also how your loved one responds to you once the truth comes out. So, in the following article, I'm going to discuss what I feel is the best way to ask someone if they are cheating on you.]]></description>
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<title>Why Accusing Someone of Cheating is Usually Not the Best Way to Find Out If They've Been Unfaithful</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 14:53:12 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often have people ask me for advice on the best way to accuse your spouse, boyfriend, or girlfriend of cheating when you know in your heart that they are being unfaithful. This is usually a gradual realization that happens over time. Perhaps you've found a lot of clues or have noticed that things just aren't adding up lately or have changed. Maybe it's just a sinking but undeniable feeling that you have. Whatever the reason, accusations of cheating can go very wrong. In the following article, I will discuss why this is so.]]></description>
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<title>How Do You Get Someone to Admit to Infidelity?</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 09:43:25 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often hear from people who are attempting to use every technique or trick in their arsenal to get their spouse, boyfriend, or girlfriend to admit to infidelity. I often hear comments like: "This is so silly. It's obvious he's being unfaithful. I know it and he knows that I know it. ]]></description>
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<title>I Caught My Husband Texting My Friend - What Does This Mean?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 14:48:07 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently heard from a wife who had casually looked over her husband's shoulder when he was texting and saw the number and photo of her friend. (The husband's phone had an app. that posted the recipient's Facebook photo when you messaged them.) Of course, the wife immediately questioned the husband as to why he was texting her friend. He made light of the situation and the wife playfully tried to grab the phone. This escalated the situation as the husband snatched the phone back and demanded to know why she was suddenly so suspicious.]]></description>
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<title>If Someone is Erasing Or Deleting Their Text Messages, is it a Sign of Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 09:48:23 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often hear from people who can't help but notice that their husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend has been increasingly sending and receiving text messages. However, when they go to check up on those texts, they've often been deleted or erased. I often hear comments like: "my husband will go and try to find privacy when he's texting. I'll see he has a mischievous and excited look on his face and I get a feeling of dread in the pit of my stomach.]]></description>
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<title>Do Inappropriate Text Messages Indicate Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 08:19:28 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Without a doubt, one of the more popular topics that I'm asked about concerning cheating are text messages. Email accounts and Facebook are close seconds, but cell phones seem to be the tools that are most likely to arouse suspicions in regards to cheating. People often make contact when they've found some inappropriate texts that have either been sent or received from their loved one's cell phone.]]></description>
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<title>He Hides His Cell Phone - Should I Be Worried That He's Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 09:45:25 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I sometimes hear from women who tell me that they're concerned about the fact that their husband or boyfriend seems to be hiding his cell phone from them. Some of these women tell me that the husband goes so far as to take the cell phone with him in the bathroom or to bed. It seems as if the guy isn't willing to leave the phone alone for even one second. ]]></description>
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<title>Where Do Men Hide Their Cell Phones?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 08:32:57 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Sometimes, people read my or other author's articles and come to learn that people often cheat using their cell phones. So, the woman who suspects her man of cheating will usually eventually realize that she needs to get a hold of the phone to see what it can tell her or what clues it has to offer. But, it's not uncommon for women in this situation to figure out that the guy has either hidden the main phone or perhaps has a "spare" phone hidden somewhere that is meant just for contacting the other person who they are cheating with. I'm often asked for common hiding places for such a phone. I'll offer some in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>Using Technology to Catch Your Cheating Husband - Can You? Should You?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jul 2010 09:28:58 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Many of the visitors who find my blog do so because they are looking for ways to catch their husband cheating. And many times, they are trying to educate themselves about the technology which will help them to do so. ]]></description>
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<title>Should a Husband and Wife Have Separate Email Accounts? Is This a Sign of Potential Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 10:04:43 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I sometimes get correspondence that is centered on secret or hidden email accounts that one spouse has found (or at least suspects.) I recently had someone contact me and tell me that she thought she may have found a separate email account of her husband's, but she didn't know how to access it.]]></description>
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<title>How to Tell If Someone is Cheating Without a Confrontation</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2010 09:11:59 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Very few of the people who contact me actually want to confront their spouse, partner, or boyfriend / girlfriend about their suspicions of cheating. I suspect that this is true for a few reasons. ]]></description>
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<title>Finding Out If Your Husband is Cheating by Using Technology, Electronics, and Gadgets</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jun 2010 09:32:40 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I sometimes get emails from wives who are trying to find out if their husband is cheating. Some are hoping to catch him in the act and others just want to know for their own peace of mind. Many have already asked their husbands about their suspicions and have been told that they are imagining things or have been met by a husband who is angry at being "wrongly accused." Whatever situation your are in, you can often find out if your husband is cheating by checking the technology that he is probably using to carry out the cheating. ]]></description>
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<title>What to Do When You Suspect Your Husband of Cheating</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 11:52:12 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I sometimes get correspondence in which the writer tells me that they have been noticing odd behavior and changes in their husband's patterns. These things have begun to evoke some suspicion that the husband is cheating or is having an affair. ]]></description>
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<title>My Spouse Has a Hidden Cell Phone That He Doesn't Think I Know About - What Should I Do?</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 13:58:26 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get asked some variation of this question quite regularly. If there are legitimate reasons for needing a secret cell phone for logical and innocent reasons, I'm having a hard time coming up with them. ]]></description>
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<title>How to Find Out If Someone's Cheating on You</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 14:30:39 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I am often asked for tips and advice on how to find out if someone you love is cheating on you. Usually, the person caught in this situation is sort of between a rock and a hard place. ]]></description>
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<title>My Spouse Has Hidden Email Accounts and is Always Texting - Could He Be Cheating on Me?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2010 14:22:05 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently heard from a wife who had found an additional email account within her family's computer home page. When she tried to compose an email, she happened to look at the "from" prompt. When she hit it, she saw that in addition to their joint email, the husband had a separate and personal one. ]]></description>
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<title>Is it Wrong to Search a Cell Phone For Incriminating Text Messages Or Other Evidence of Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 14:10:14 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[In the past, I've written about how I believe that a spouses' deleted text messages can sometimes point to potential cheating or infidelity in the relationship. I've had a couple of people who have responded that they think that it's wrong or improper to go searching for texts or photo messages on someone else's private cell phone. ]]></description>
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<title>Potential Reasons That Spouses Hide Their Cell Phones</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 27 Apr 2010 13:16:30 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Recently, I've begun getting emails that focus on hidden cell phones, deleted text messages, and erased call logs. I'm often asked what it means if a spouse is isolating themselves when using the phone or are blatantly hiding it. There can be many implications to this and many of them are not all that innocent, although some are. In the following article, I'll discuss some of the potential reasons that spouses hide their cell phones.]]></description>
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<title>Why Do Spouses Hide When Texting?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 13:34:35 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently received an email from a wife who was very troubled by her husband's new habit of leaving the room when he texting. Lately, he'd been attempting to text in secret. Eventually this bothered the wife enough that she decided to confront the husband about it. He told her that he was only texting his male friends and that it was silly for her to make such a big deal about it. His exact response was "This is silly. We're not 16 years old. You know that you can trust me." This didn't ring true for the wife. ]]></description>
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<title>Potential Places to Look to Find Out If Your Spouse is Cheating</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 16:06:42 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get asked questions on this subject at least several times per week. People want to know if the signs they are seeing point to cheating, and, if so, how do they follow these things up to know for sure that infidelity is happening? Often, people will tell me that they "just know" that their spouse is cheating but they've been unable to prove this. ]]></description>
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<title>If He Doesn't Call As Much and Works Overtime, is He Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 09:52:53 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently received an email from a wife who had been noticing some strange behavior from her husband. Basically, he had putting in a lot of extra hours at work, didn't check in as much, and was generally just distracted. When the wife mentioned this to one of her friends, the friend told the wife that she might consider that her husband was cheating on her or having an affair. After all, working late and neglecting you are supposedly tell-tale signs of cheating. So the wife wanted to know my opinion on whether her husband was being unfaithful or not. ]]></description>
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<title>Should I Know Who He Had an Affair With?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 10:42:59 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently received an email from a woman whose husband would not tell her the identity of the other woman who he had an affair with. For months prior to this, the wife suspected her husband was cheating and would confront him, but he would always deny everything. In the last week, a mutual friend of this couple's had finally broken down and told the wife that yes, her suspicions were true and that her husband had in fact had an affair.]]></description>
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<title>I Dreamt That My Husband Was Cheating on Me - Could That Mean That He Really is Being Unfaithful?</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2010 13:20:18 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I sometimes get emails from women who have woken from a dream in which their husband was cheating on them. Many use phrases to describe this event like "it was so real that I had to wake myself up and I woke in a cold sweat." Or, "I know it was only a dream but now I can't stop thinking about. I just got a weird feeling about it like my intuition was trying to tell me something." These observations are often followed up by questions like "am I just being silly by paying attention to this dream or could this mean that he's actually cheating on me?" ]]></description>
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<title>How to Prompt a Confession From a Cheating Spouse</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 12:55:58 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often get emails from people who want advice as to how to get their spouse to admit that they are cheating. Often, they have made many attempts to confront their spouse, or even to catch them, but the spouse continues to both get away with it and to deny that anything is going on. Often, the cheater will try to make the suspicious spouse look unstable and paranoid. After all, it's in their best interests to insinuate that it's you who has the problem. There are some right ways and wrong ways to get that ever elusive confession. There are most definitely some things to avoid and some things to embrace. I will discuss them in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>Can You Trick Someone and Get Them to Admit an Affair?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 13:07:04 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently got an email where the wife asked me if there was anyway to "trick" her husband into admitting to an affair that she was sure he was having. For months, she had been confronting her husband about cheating at the office. She wasn't sure who the other person was, but she was very much sure that such a person existed. ]]></description>
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<title>What Does it Mean If He Wont Tell You the Name of the Person He Was Having an Affair With?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 13:06:22 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently received an email from a wife who had finally worn her husband down so that he finally admitted that he "might" have been unfaithful. However, this is all he would say. He would not give her specifics or time frames. But most importantly, he would not give her the name of the woman that he had been cheating with. ]]></description>
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<title>Deleted Text Messages and Cheating Spouses</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:13:34 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Of all of the emails that I get asking about clues points to cheating, text messages are by far the most common topic. People want to know if deleted text messages are a sign that indicates probable cheating. They want to know if they can read texts that have been deleted. And, they want to know if there is any logical and legitimate reason that an innocent spouse would want to delete texts that are completely appropriate. I will discuss all of these things in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>Signs That Your Husband Has Ended the Affair</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 13:23:58 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often receive emails from wives who really do want to believe that their husband have ended the affair and are completely committed to working together to saving the marriage. But, for whatever reason, many have trouble totally believing in this. Maybe it's because he was actively lying to you before when he was cheating. Maybe it's hard to believe that someone can just turn off and on their feelings and flip flop in this way.]]></description>
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<title>Guilt Trips to Make Him Confess to Cheating - Do They Work? Are They Advisable? Here's My Opinion</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 13:01:25 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I've recently started getting emails from women (and sometimes from men) who ask me the best way to pull a good enough "guilt trip" on their partner in order to get them to come clean about cheating or having an affair. In short, the suspecting spouse is hoping to elicit guilt that is so strong that the cheating partner will want to finally tell the truth and unburden themselves.]]></description>
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<title>Want to Know If an Emotional Affair Turned Physical? Here's a Few Ways to Try to Find Out</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 13:08:46 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently received an email from a woman who was filled with doubt and fear. She had discovered the existence of an emotional affair which occurred between her husband and a coworker (who she had considered somewhat of a friend.) The husband immediately apologized, told the wife he would end everything, and later swore that nothing physical ever happened. ]]></description>
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<title>Has the Affair Really Ended?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 14:37:32 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently received an email from a wife who was trying to pick up the pieces of her marriage and to work things out after learning of her husband's affair. After long conversations and a lot of search searching, the husband promised to end the affair and to try to work things out with his wife. This all sounded really good in theory, but the wife just could not get over her suspicions that the husband was not able to let the other woman go. ]]></description>
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<title>How to Know If an Emotional Affair Has Ended</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 13:01:33 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently received an email from a wife whose husband had been having an emotional affair with a coworker. The husband claimed that the affair had never turned physical or had "never crossed the line," but the wife had her doubts about this. She had seen some texts and emails which suggested a close intimacy between the two and this was driving her crazy. ]]></description>
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<title>Why Do Men Keep the Identity of the Other Woman a Secret? A List of Some Possible Reasons</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 13:05:45 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[The other day, I received an email from a wife who said that her husband had finally admitted to cheating and having an affair. However, he would just not give up the name and the identity of the other woman. The wife continued to tell the husband that she wanted and needed to know who this woman was.]]></description>
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<title>How Can You Find Out About an Affair That Has Ended? Tips and Insights That Might Help</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 11:53:44 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[The other day, I received an email from a wife who had been told by a friend that her husband had an affair with a coworker about a year ago. The wife was pretty shocked by this news. She hadn't had any suspicions whatsoever and she felt blindsided because she thought that her marriage was solid. ]]></description>
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<title>He Denies Cheating After I Found a Deleted Text Message - Tips and Insights That Might Help</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 13:09:41 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I recently received correspondence from a wife who found a racy and inappropriate email (from another woman) on the deleted list of her husband's text messages. Of course, she confronted her husband about this and he insisted that the text was a wrong number and that he had deleted it because it simply did not belong to him. The wife did not believe him.]]></description>
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<title>Signs to Look For to Know That Your Spouse Has Ended a Secret Affair</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 13:07:43 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Most of the email that I get is about catching a spouse while they are cheating. Sometimes though, I get questions asking me for signs that the affair or the cheating is actually over.]]></description>
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<title>Why Do Men Need Secret Friendships? A Look at Some of the Reasons They Might Give You</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/3610809</link>
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<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 14:08:11 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Over the weekend, I received an email from a wife who had found out that her husband had been secretly spending a lot of time with a female coworker. She also had found some text messages from this same coworker and had begun to worry about the appropriateness of the relationship. She shared her concerns with her husband but he told her that she was completely overreacting. In fact, he told her that he had several female friends at the office, but he did not share these relationships with his wife because he knew that their existence would bother and worry her. ]]></description>
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<title>Why Do Men Keep Their Affairs a Secret? I'll Tell You</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 13:58:42 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often hear from people who want to know why men go through such great pains and efforts to keep their cheating a secret. They ask me why the husband doesn't just break up with or divorce the wife or girlfriend if he wants to be with someone else.]]></description>
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<title>Do I Really Want to Know If He's Having an Affair? Insights That May Help</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/3530503</link>
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<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 08:22:28 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Much of the email that I receive is from women (both wives and girlfriends) who are asking me for information on topics like: signs of an affair; ways to confront a husband or boyfriend about cheating; and tactics to catch a man cheating. I often provide this information as best as I can, but there are times when the women who asked the question either delay in using the tactics suggested or they decide not to use them at all.]]></description>
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<title>Why Do Men Keep Their Affairs a Secret (Even When You Know They Are Lying?) Some Possible Reasons</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 11:13:01 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often hear this question from angry and frustrated wives and girlfriends. I often hear things like: "This is so ridiculous. He continues to deny his affair and be secretive even though I have caught him in so many lies and make no secret of my suspicions. Why does he keep playing this game even though he looks looks like a foolish liar when he does it?" There are several reasons that a man will lie and keep the deception going. I will discuss some of the more common reasons in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>Catching Married Men in Affairs - Some Strategies to Do This Successfully</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2009 10:50:56 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[The main theme of the emails and the comments that I get are from people who feel reasonably certain that their spouse is cheating on them, but they either don't know how to confront him, or they have tried to confront him or catch him with less than desirable results. Often, one of two things will happen.]]></description>
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<title>Why Do Married Men Keep Passwords From Their Wives? Is This Appropriate? Here's My Opinion</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2009 13:13:40 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I was recently asked if it was appropriate for a married man to keep email, cell phone, Facebook, MySpace, and forum passwords from his wife. I honestly think that the wife who asked this question really did know the answer herself. Because if she was perfectly fine and OK with her husband's being so secretive, she would not have needed to ask if this was appropriate behavior for a married man.]]></description>
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<title>How to Confront a Cheating Spouse With No Proof</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/3399835</link>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 13:01:50 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Despite the fact that I often write about technology and spying to get an admission of cheating, I still have many people ask me how they can confront their spouse about the cheating without having to resort to getting proof. For whatever reason, many people find it distasteful to spy on their spouse or to obtain proof of the affair. I have to admit that I have a hard time understanding this. If someone is being deceitful enough to lie to and cheat on you, it would seem to me that at this point, all bets would be off. However, since many do seem to want to get this admission without proof, this article will look at the psychological aspects of confronting them about their cheating and will discuss what I feel are the best ways to get the results that you want.]]></description>
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<title>Why Won't They Tell the Truth About the Affair?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 09:46:27 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get asked this question on an almost daily basis. It's very common for me to hear from both women and men who have some very compelling reasons to believe that their spouse or loved one is cheating. Yet, despite their trying to directly ask, reason with, or trick the person into telling them the truth, they always seem to hit a dead end.]]></description>
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<title>Excuses Married Men Use to Keep Their Affair a Secret From Their Wife</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 13:24:07 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Many women intuitively "know" that their husband is having an affair before they actually learn the truth. The problem is that many times, we dismiss what we're seeing because we don't want for it to be true. We try to make excuses or to justify things that just don't add up. We want to believe in him so badly. So, even his flimsy and nonsensical excuses sound perfectly logical because we want for them to be. So when he reassures us that he loves us and that his heart belongs only to us, we're already predisposed to believing him because we're afraid of what would happen should we chose not to. In the following article, I will discuss some of the common excuses men will give their wives when they are cheating and also some ways that you can call them on these excuses.]]></description>
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<title>How to Get Someone to Admit They Cheated</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 13:08:26 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[If you've found this article, I have to assume that you know how common this question really is. I'm asked a lot of questions about catching or confronting cheating and I believe this one is by far one of the most common. The fact is, as bad as dealing with a cheating partner is, most people would much prefer that the cheater admit the betrayal themselves rather than your having to catch them.]]></description>
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<title>Common Signs of a Cheating Wife</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 10:39:26 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Specialists will sometimes tell us that that husbands with cheating wives are slower to clue in that something is going on than wives with cheating husbands. That's because it's commonly thought that women are more perceptive when something is "off" or wrong. Also, women are thought to be more easily thrown off their regular routine than men. But, even if the signs are harder or later to discover, they are still there and, for the most part, seeing the signs is not rocket science. In the following article, I will outline what I believe are the most common signs that husbands see when their wife is cheating.]]></description>
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<title>Signs Your Spouse is Lying</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 11:36:16 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often write about ways to tell if people are cheating. But, within this topic come a lot of questions about the best way to spot a lie or tell if your spouse is lying to you. Many times, something will just seem a bit off or your spouse might sound or look strange (or even give off an odd vibe) when they say something. Other times, their explanation or recounting of an event just don't seem to make sense or contradict what they may have claimed before.]]></description>
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<title>How to Get Someone to Admit They Are Having an Affair With Just Talking.</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:41:09 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Often, when people email me to ask how they can get their spouse to admit that they are cheating, they are quite resistant to the technological methods which I know for a fact work. The thing is, most people want for their spouse or significant other to care about them enough to tell them the truth to their face. They want to be able to convince or trick or guilt their loved one into breaking down and confessing everything.]]></description>
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<title>How to Make a Cheater Admit Their Lies</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 13:41:54 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often get emails from people who request my help in getting their significant other to admit to cheating. Either the person writing me has good reasons to suspect that cheating is happening, a friend or coworker has told them about the infidelity, or they think that they have some irrefutable proof as to the affair...]]></description>
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<title>How to Confront a Cheating Spouse in the Right Way</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 13:46:07 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often get emails from people who are certain that their spouse is cheating and they have accepted this as the truth. Perhaps that have seen evidence that convinces them that they are being cheated on or they are either listening to their gut or other witnesses who have told them about the infidelity. No matter how they found out, they have come to the point where they are ready to tell their spouse what they know. And, this is the point where I often get emails that ask me the best way to go about doing this. In the following article, I will tell you the advice that I most often give on this topic.]]></description>
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<title>How to Know If Someone is Lying About Cheating</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 13:33:30 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often receive emails from people who are being bombarded with all sorts of defenses as to why their spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, or partner is not cheating.  They're often offered a multiple of very logical explanations as to why things have changed in the relationship, why the loved one is increasingly absent, and why you are noticing weird occurrences, phone calls, or late outings will increased frequency. The person who is being accused of cheating is usually insisting that the person doing the accusing is all wrong.  Sometimes, they will do their best to seem sincere and injured and confused.  Other times, they will become both defensive and aggressive and let you know very clearly that they consider this to be an attack of their character and their commitment. ]]></description>
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<title>When an Accused Spouse Denies Cheating</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 15:07:14 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get a lot of emails from spouses who are pretty sure that their spouse is cheating on them (and some of them even have a small amount of proof), but when they attempt to confront their spouse about the infidelity, the spouse who is suspected of cheating will shut these accusations down in a variety of ways.  The most common way is to angrily deny anything and then to try to turn the accusations around. ]]></description>
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<title>How to Detect Lying and Cheating in Your Husband Or Wife</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 12:32:45 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Many people send me emails which indicate that they know in their hearts that their spouse is either lying or cheating, or both, but there is enough doubt in their heads that they will often ask me how to know if they are right or just being paranoid.  In short, they begin to question themselves and wonder if they are just seeing problems where none exist and run the risk of alienating their spouse by not believing in them.]]></description>
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<title>Internet Monitoring to Catch a Cheating Spouse</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/3023995</link>
<guid>http://EzineArticles.com/3023995</guid>
<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 16:26:47 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Many people intuitively know to look at their spouse's electronics for clues or trails to cheating.  After all, they are going to need a way to contact the other person and the most logical way for them to do this with some privacy is by using either a computer or cell phone.  Some cheaters will surf the net as way to find new prey (if they are between conquests.)  Either way, monitoring their internet or computer usage can be a very effective way to keep tabs on them or to catch them.  Sometimes though, I find that folks either don't know how to do this correctly or they have moral issues with it.  I'll discuss both of these things in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>I Am Pretty Sure That My Husband is Cheating With His Coworker, But He Won't Admit It</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 14:53:25 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[The other day, I received an email from a wife who was so upset.  For the past several months, she had noticed her husband getting more and more distant and spending less and less time at home.  She also knew that he worked very closely with a woman at work, which the wife had to admit, was quite attractive and "forward."  While her husband used to joke about the "look at me" appearance of his coworker, he no longer engaged in these jokes and he now became annoyed when his wife did.  The wife also could not help but notice that the two of them were working on more projects together and she also noticed a strange and troubling vibe when she did visit the office -  both from the woman, her husband, and other coworkers.  Of course, she had asked her husband if anything was going on, but he denied it.  So, she was not sure where to go from here. In the following article, I will tell you the advice that I gave to her.]]></description>
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<title>When a Man Denies Cheating on You When You Know That He Is</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 13:19:59 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[It's bad enough when you've been injured and hurt by a man who has been unfaithful to you. But, it's even worse when he looks you in the eye and denies what you know in your heart and through common sense and observation is true. You can not help but wonder how stupid he thinks you are and how little respect he actually has for you. This can seem like a hopeless situation. But, while you can not change the fact that the cheating has occurred, you can change how you handle it and how you approach him, which I will discuss more in the following article. ]]></description>
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<title>If a Husband is Saying That His Coworkers Are Cheating, Does This Mean That He is Cheating Too?</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/2979017</link>
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<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 13:26:24 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I received an email from a woman who said that her husband was pretty much coming home every day and telling her how two of his coworkers had been carrying on a hot and heavy affair right under their respective spouse's noses.  To this wife, her husband seemed just a little too interested in this topic and he seemed to know a lot of details about how the two of them were able to pull this off - almost as though he were condoning this kind of dishonesty and personal conduct.  The wife was troubled by this. It bothered her that he worked in such an environment and she wondered if perhaps his weird interest in this meant that he was also cheating (or wanting to.)  I will tell you how I answered this wife's question in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>Warning Signs of Infidelity - My Top Five</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/2972250</link>
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<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 10:23:39 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often get emails which list something that one spouse is seeing from the other and the spouse who is writing wants to know if this thing could be a sign of cheating or infidelity.  In an attempt to answer several of these inquiries at one time, I'm going to list some common warning signs of infidelity, hoping that you will either see a pattern in these (or the lack of one) to help you determine if these infidelity suspensions are something that you might want to tune into a little more closely.]]></description>
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<title>No Matter What I Say to My Wife, She Denies Cheating</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/2959027</link>
<guid>http://EzineArticles.com/2959027</guid>
<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 12:01:59 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Over the weekend, I got an email from a husband who wanted advice on how to get his wife to admit to cheating.  He'd been told by several friends and coworkers that his wife was being seen around town with someone else.  He'd also noticed many troubling signs and some distance from her.  He knew that something was wrong.  He knew that she was no longer as affectionate and committed to the marriage.  Everyone was telling him that she was cheating.  So, in his mind, he knew that she was lying to him and he just wanted the truth.  It was very troubling to him that she did not respect him enough to come clean, especially when he'd asked her straight out to be truthful.]]></description>
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<title>Why Men Deny Cheating When It's Obvious That They Are</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/2933679</link>
<guid>http://EzineArticles.com/2933679</guid>
<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 13:58:19 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get a lot of emails from outraged women who say that it's very obvious and evident that their husband or boyfriend is cheating and yet, no matter what they say or do, the man will still insist that he is completely innocent.  Sometimes, he's even indignant and accusatory that perhaps it's you who has something to hide or that your insecurity and accusations are hurtful.  In the following article, I'll try to offer you some insight as to why men continue to make these denials even when all the evidence is there that he is lying right to your face.]]></description>
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<title>10 Ways to See and Read the Signs That He's Cheating on You</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/2921510</link>
<guid>http://EzineArticles.com/2921510</guid>
<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 14:06:27 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[People often ask me for "signs" or "signals" that a man is cheating on you.  People want this information, I think, because they need to know that they aren't crazy and that they don't have an overactive imagination.  ]]></description>
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<title>He's Cheating But Wont Tell Me Himself - Tips and Advice That May Help</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/2909854</link>
<guid>http://EzineArticles.com/2909854</guid>
<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 14:39:03 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often have people ask me what they should do if lots of people are telling them that their husband or boyfriend is cheating and yet he will not admit to it no matter what.  This is so frustrating.  Everyone is saying it.  It's no longer a secret and yet he's disrespectful enough to continue to lie to the person who he claims to care the most about.  Sometimes, getting his admission becomes almost an obsession for us.  There are many reasons for this which I will discuss more in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>How to Build Your Self Esteem After Your Spouse Has Cheated and Won't Admit It</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/2897953</link>
<guid>http://EzineArticles.com/2897953</guid>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 13:44:50 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[The other day, I received a pretty heartbreaking email from a wife who knew that her husband had and was still being unfaithful but he did not and would not admit it.  Many people had told her about the affair and she had strong suspicions herself, but every time she went to confront her husband, he would turn it around on her, tell her she was crazy and that her over reaching was only going to make him want to actually cheat. The wife told me that this had been awful for her. She had begun to doubt most of the people she really cared about - her husband, her friends, and her coworkers. She didn't know who to believe and she no longer trusted her own judgment. She doubted her ability to keep a man interested and was angry at herself for allowing this to happen.  I had to stress to her that this was in no way her fault. This was her husband's mistake and choice - not hers.  I will discuss this more in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>I Want Help to Catch My Husband Cheating</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 13:16:05 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Last night, I received an email from a wife who asked for my "help in catching my husband cheating."  The writer lived on the other side of the country and I certainly did not know her personally, but I was able to offer her some general tips and advice on how she could go about catching him on her own.  I'll share these things with you in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>How to Stop a Husband From Chatting Online</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 10:23:59 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I've recently begun getting a lot of emails about online chatting, flirting, cyber affairs, etc.  People want to know if they should consider this cheating or worry that much about it.  Most people are not able to excuse it and see it for what it is - your spouse getting their needs met somewhere else than with you.  But, many are confused as to put a stop to it when the spouse who is doing it claims that it "means nothing" and tells you that you are overreacting.  In the following article, I'll tell you how to begin to put a stop to this destructive behavior.]]></description>
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<title>So You Think He's Cheating? Tips and Advice That May Help You Decide How to Proceed</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 13:10:22 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[By the time that people get around to emailing or writing on my blog, they are already at a point where all of the signs are pointing to cheating. Whether they want to admit it to themselves or not, they have a sinking feeling in their gut that is telling them that something is terribly wrong. They are sometimes looking for something (or someone) to tell them that they might be wrong. Most times, they really want to be wrong but all of the clues are compelling enough to prompt them to research things like "proof he's cheating," "signs he's having an affair," or "how to know for sure that he is being unfaithful."]]></description>
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<title>If a Man Accuses You of Cheating Does That Mean That He Himself is Cheating? Here's My Opinion</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 13:31:02 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[The other day, I received an email in which the writer's husband had suddenly begun exhibiting some strange behaviors and accusations. Recently, he had begun accusing her of cheating, seemingly out of the blue.  She had also noticed that he wasn't spending as much time at home, was distracted, and seemed to find fault with her and the marriage on a much more frequent basis.  In short, he was just acting weird and distant and was giving off some strange vibes.  She wanted to know: "does my husband's accusing me of cheating mean that he is cheating on me?" I'll tell you my take on this question in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>Why Don't Cheaters Admit it When Confronted? My Opinion Based on Experience</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 12:39:00 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get so many frustrated emails from folks who know or very strongly suspect that their spouse or significant other is cheating, but no matter what accusations or evidence is presented, the significant other will continue to deny it. This can be a very maddening cycle. It insults your intelligence and common sense. It shows a definite lack of respect for you and your relationship. ]]></description>
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<title>If My Husband is Lying, Does That Mean He's Cheating Too?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 08:37:03 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[The other day, I received an email from a wife who said she had either caught her husband in, or suspected him of, "several little white lies."  Examples were he told her that he was at work, but when she called, the receptionist said he wasn't there.  He told her that he was with a friend and coworker, but when she mentioned this outing to the co worker's wife, she only got a blank stare. ]]></description>
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<title>I Always Think My Girlfriend is Cheating on Me - Tips and Advice That May Help</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 09:33:23 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[The other day, I received an email from a guy who told me that "I always get the feeling that my girlfriend is cheating on me. I've asked her about this and she wonders how I could even ask her that and gets very upset. But, she doesn't out and out say no and she doesn't offer any logical explanations for her behavior.]]></description>
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<title>Why Won't Someone Caught Cheating Admit to It?  I'll Tell You Why They Lie and How to Proceed</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2009 11:29:02 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[The other day, I received an email from a women who told me a long story about how she came to suspect (and to "absolutely know" in her words) that her husband had been cheating.  To make a long story short, she said that one day her husband had been 'working late" and she was at home doing chores.  About an hour before she expected her husband home, a woman called and asked this wife if she was "happy in her marriage."  Of course, the wife was extremely upset.  And of course, she confronted her husband the second he got home.  The husband just looked at her funny and told her that some "psycho must be playing a trick on you" or "is trying to cause trouble."  Of course, it didn't make any sense to the wife why a perfect stranger would chose to call her home and she was bothered by and very upset by this call, but as the days went by and she didn't hear anything more, she tried to put this out of her mind.]]></description>
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<title>My Spouse Won't Admit to Their Affair - Tips and Advice That May Help</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 13:02:20 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Very often, I get emails from people who tell me that they've pretty sure (and some even say that they are "positive") that their spouses are having an affair. Sometimes people or friends have told them about the affair or have even seen their spouse with the other person. ]]></description>
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<title>What Will Make a Person Tell You the Truth About His Or Her Cheating? My Opinion</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 09:12:52 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often get emails from frustrated people who are pretty sure that their spouse or significant other is cheating.  Maybe they have broached the subject or have even flat out asked if there is someone else, but their loved one continues to deny that anything is wrong even though it's obvious to them that this just isn't true.  I'm often asked for ways to get or trick someone into finally admitting the truth about the cheating. I'll outline the advice that I often give in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>What to Do If You Feel Like He's Cheating</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 09:03:36 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I sometimes get emails from women who are starting to suspect that their husbands or boyfriends are cheating.  They aren't sure how to proceed.  They often wonder whether they should ask or admit to their suspicions or if they should just watch and wait for awhile.  And, they want to know what they should be doing if they decide not to confront him right away.  Or, if they do chose to confront him, how should they do it? What should they say?  I'll address these questions in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>How Do I Know For Sure My Husband's Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 08:35:00 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often receive emails or comments from women who ask me how they "can know absolutely with 100% certainty that my husband is cheating."  Sure, they have strong suspicions and some even have proof, but 99.9% of the time, the husband will have an explanation for everything (even if these explanations are silly, non believable, and far fetched), and he'll continue to lie to you and to deny everything.  So, how can you be sure that you're right and he's wrong? I'll discuss this more in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>Should I Offer Proof That He is Cheating Or Having an Affair? My Advice Based on Experience</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 09:46:12 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[The other day I received an email from a woman who had discovered a few clues or trails which she felt confirmed her suspicions that her husband was cheating. She could not tell from this evidence how serious the relationship was or if it had turned into a long term affair, but she knew that what she was seeing was just not normal or right.  ]]></description>
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<title>What to Do When You Suspect He's Cheating</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 11:08:36 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get a lot of emails from girlfriends and wives who have the sneaking suspicion that their husband or boyfriend is being unfaithful.  Perhaps it's just a feeling that they have.  Maybe their man has exhibited suspect behavior or just doesn't seem interested anymore.  Maybe they've even found some evidence that they think backs up the suspicions that are demanding their attention, (like phone numbers, bills with questionable charges, or unfamiliar items in a husband's car.) Whatever it is that has made you suspicious, there is typically a right way and a wrong way to handle this, which I will discuss more in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>Is it Wise to Tell Your Husband Or Boyfriend That You Think He's Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 11:22:47 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often have people who contact me, explain that they suspect or think that their husband or boyfriend is cheating, and ask whether it's a good idea to confront him about this suspicion.  My advice is based both on both experience and research and my response is almost always that although you should eventually confront him about the suspected cheating, you should not do this until you are absolutely sure that you are right and can offer up indisputable proof.  I'll explain why in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>I Know That He's Cheating, But I Can't Find Any Evidence of This - Tips and Advice That May Help</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:39:17 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get a lot of emails from women who feel that they "know" or strongly suspect that their husband or boyfriend is currently being unfaithful, but they have to concede that they currently don't have any evidence that would prove this to be true. This evidence is often necessary because quite often, a man will continue to deny any wrong doing even though you may both know that he is lying to you. That's because he knows that once he comes clean, there will be many repercussions and undesirable reactions that follow. He'd like to avoid this, of course, so he will keep right on with the status quo.]]></description>
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<title>What to Do If You Think He's Cheating But Have No Proof? Tips and Advice That May Help</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 13:30:36 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often get emails from women who strongly suspect that their husbands or boyfriends are cheating but they have no solid evidence to back up these suspicions.  I often hear comments like: "I know that he's cheating on me, but I have nothing to prove this.  How can I get him to confess?;" or " How can I prove to him that he should just admit the cheating so that we can move on? It's insulting to me for him to keep pretending that we don't both know what's happening."  I'll address these concerns, as well as methods to get the proof that you need, in the following article.]]></description>
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<title>How to Approach Your Spouse If You Suspect Him Or Her of Cheating</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 09:03:31 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[There is no sinking feeling quite like strongly suspecting that your spouse is cheating. You very much want to be wrong.  In fact, your deepest desire is that you get up your nerve to approach them with your suspicions and that they then provide you with a perfectly logical explanation that shows that your fears were unfounded.  This often doesn't happen for several reasons.  First, statistics show that the vast majority of people who cheat will never admit to it.  Second, those accused of cheating will become defensive or angry and the spouse with the suspicions is seen as paranoid and / or overly possessive.]]></description>
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<title>He Won't Admit He's Cheated</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 14:51:57 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get a lot of emails from frustrated women who want to know how to get a husband or boyfriend to finally admit that he's cheated. I often get comments like: "he's shown all the signs and I know that he has cheated in the past.  We both know it, so why doesn't he admit it already and stop playing this game?;" or "I've even gone so far as to tell him that I would forgive him if he would just tell me the truth, but he just continues to deny it;" or "I have told him that no matter what he says, I'm going to proceed forward as if he cheated anyway, so what does he have to lose by just telling me the truth? ]]></description>
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<title>Is Talking About His Coworker All the Time a Sign of a Cheating Husband Or Boyfriend?</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2009 16:15:09 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get a lot of emails from wives or girlfriends who are concerned about their husband's or boyfriend's coworkers. Often, the woman will notice that her man spends on awful lot of time talking about this other woman, so it would be reasonable to suspect that he also spends a lot of time thinking about her too. ]]></description>
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<title>My Husband Won't Admit to Having Another Phone - Tips and Advice That May Help</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 14:41:33 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often tell my readers to look for the existence of a second cell phone if they suspect cheating.  Most people know full well that cheaters are most often caught with their cell phones, so smart cheaters will keep one phone on which to call their spouses or loved ones and another phone that is only reserved for the person that their are cheating with. This way, no incriminating numbers or texts will be seen which would lead to their being caught.  I often have people who email me and say that they know their husband (or wife) is juggling two cell phones, but they can't get him (or her) to admit it. ]]></description>
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<title>Is it Possible For a Man to Show All the Signs of an Affair and Yet Not Be Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 13:53:02 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get a lot of women who email me and doubt what their gut is telling them.  They're seeing all the signs and indications that their husband or boyfriend is having an affair or cheating, but when they confront the guy, he denies everything and has an explanation for every concern.  ]]></description>
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<title>Will My Spouse Ever Admit to Cheating?</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 15:24:46 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I often get emails for folks who are frustrated beyond belief that their spouse will not admit to or fess up to cheating. I get comments like "we both know that he's cheating.  There is no doubt in my mind.  His admitting it is just a formality, so why won't he say the words?" ]]></description>
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<title>All Signs Point to an Affair, But He Won't Admit It</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 15:40:00 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I get a lot of emails from women who say that their boyfriend or husband is exhibiting all of the signs of an affair (caring about his appearance too much, hiding his cell phone or computer, being distant and avoiding intimacy, not being where he says he's going to be, etc.), but when confronted, the men just refuse to admit that anything is going on.  They will just continue to deny even though the signs are being held right up to their face.  Some will actually turn it around on their wives or girlfriends by either saying that they're clingy, over imaginative, or are making accusations of cheating to distract the attention away from themselves. In the following article, I'll tell you how to best handle this situation.]]></description>
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