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<title>Solace Swanson - EzineArticles Expert Author</title>
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<description><![CDATA[Personal Development, Self Improvement and helping you become the best man you can be are the prime importances in solace's life. Hopefully you can take the action and enjoy the free material he provides to help you grow and become a better man.]]></description>
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<title>How to Get That One Special Girl - Part 3 - Making the Move on the Girl Without Breaking Your Friend</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 13:56:13 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[It's a difficult problem we all seem to get in; you start feeling for your best friend, or girls close to you who you get along with so well. The problem is, what if they don't like you back? Fear no longer, for there is a way to determine if she likes you, figure out a way to ask her out if she does like you, and hopefully live happily ever after.]]></description>
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<title>5 Easy Steps to Ease the Anxiety When Talking to Beautiful Women</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 13:47:22 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Social pressure is the driving force behind many of your actions. It's probably the reason why you stutter and laugh uncontrollably when a beautiful woman stares at you or when you look down and avoid the stare of a police officer. It controls our actions because we feel the pressure bearing down on us and most of the time, we just crumble and succumb to it. Of course, this mechanism can be good: it can stop you getting in trouble or doing embarrassing things. However... a man who cannot resist social pressure is very unattractive.]]></description>
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<title>How to Get Him Back Into Your Life</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 13:00:46 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[While it is part of the road to finding that special someone, nobody likes to go through a breakup.  If you are looking for how to get him back, there are some things you can do to give yourself a chance.]]></description>
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<title>How to Deal With a Break Up Without Fuss</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 11:57:47 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[When looking at how to deal with a break up, it is vital you understand the healing process can take time.  This means letting out your emotions, talking to friends about it, and having a good time to move on.]]></description>
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<title>Do You Want Your Ex Back in Days Rather Than Months?</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 09:03:17 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[It is important that you are patient if you want your ex back.  It can take time to win them over again, but time is better than never again.  Show them you appreciate them and do not be afraid to change things up and try something new.]]></description>
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<title>Your Ego is Holding You Back</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 09:02:39 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Feeling you need to prove yourself to others is an issue that will definitely hold you back when you're learning how to become good with women. When you started, you were probably humble (well, you have to be to admit that you need help with women) and you would have gained some success...]]></description>
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<title>How to Get That One Special Girl - Part 2 - Getting Over Nervousness and Knowing Exactly What to Say</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jun 2008 14:26:45 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[The issue of nervousness and anxiety talking to a stunning woman is a big problem, I know, I've been there before, yet there is a solution, and amazingly it can be learned in just a few minutes.     The first thing you must realize is that the problem is not that you don't know what to say. I'm quite sure when you are with friends out and about you talk with them, you don't sit there all nervous thinking things like "oh do they like me?]]></description>
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<title>Do You Know How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jun 2008 14:24:49 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[There are a million things you can do to try and get your ex girlfriend back.  It can be difficult knowing that every girl is different in some way.  But typically, following these three steps is a great way for how to get your ex girlfriend back.]]></description>
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<title>The 6 Mistakes You Make With Women - Stop Making Them and Get That Girl You've Always Desired</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 10:51:44 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Applying just one or two of these golden rules will have you with the ability to attract any women you desire, yes even that one you've had your eye on for quite some time, they key here is actually doing them, not simply reading then going back to World of Warcraft.]]></description>
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<title>5 Tips to Help You Get Over a Break Up</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 10:50:42 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[It can be difficult to get over a break up.  The longer the relationship, the harder it will be to look toward the future.  But applying the tips listed in this article will help you move on with your life.]]></description>
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<title>How to Get That One Special Girl - Part 1 - The Abundance Mindset</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 08:33:11 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Have that one girl perfect for you, but just don't know to words to say to attract her? Make her fall in love in days with this Guide.]]></description>
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<title>4 Questions to Ask When Wondering How to Get Your Ex Back</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 09:43:04 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[When pondering on how to get ex back, ask yourself the four questions in this article first.  This will allow you to truly determine whether you are committed enough and willing to do whatever it takes to get that special someone back.]]></description>
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<title>Feeling Your Life's Just Not Quite Right?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 11:20:01 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Are you feeling on top of the world right now? Feeling incredibly successful and enjoying life to the max? If the answer is no, I've got something quite shocking to tell you, success isn't going to change that.]]></description>
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<title>Are You Filling a Void?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2008 08:33:58 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Are you dating women in order to bring them more happiness and joy? Or mainly to bring yourself more happiness and joy? If it's the latter, it's going to be a tough uphill struggle. If perhaps its not for your own happiness and joy, but rather an attempt to satisfy your ego, then you're setting off on the wrong path from the very start.]]></description>
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<title>Seperating Yourself From Your Ego</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 09:42:04 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Your ego is both inspiring and full of deceit, on the surface it appears to be helping you, it gives you small boosts of gratification when you succeed and that helps keep you going, however on the flip side it is also one of the biggest hindrances you will face in life. You see your ego just wants you to be safe, to have fun and to be the best, however what it doesn't realize is that failure can be a good thing. In fact, your ego hates failure, it loathes nothing more, and this is where most people go.]]></description>
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<title>Getting Over Fear With An Abundance Mentality</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 23 Dec 2007 17:59:42 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Fear is a common culprit for most if not all of the problems we as men face with dealing with women. I know you and I both have fears over all the different aspects of pickup, from just walking up and saying those first few words, to getting a girls phone number, kissing a girl, having sex or even keeping a relationship alive and dealing with jealousy and attachment. At the root of most of these fears is what is known as a scarcity mentality, yet on the surface it doesn't appear to be so.]]></description>
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<title>Being Polite is Rude</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 19 Nov 2007 09:07:27 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[You're a polite individual. You say please and thank you, and treat people with decency and respect. However, for some reason this does not seem to have a positive influence on your social life - in fact, quite the opposite. You still feel awkward around your peers, tongue tied where others speak freely in social situations, and find the girls of your dreams walking straight past you, into the arms of the biggest jerk in the world.]]></description>
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<title>How To Get Your Ex Back, And Keep Her Forever</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 09:27:15 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[I can see it now, you tried your hardest to make it work but she just seemed to get more and more distant, unfortunately you never saw it coming, that dreaded day when for no reason at all she decided to dump you. I understand how much it hurts, I've been there before and it's never good, especially when you don't believe you've done anything wrong. But let there not be despair, for you can win back her heart, although it's not the way most people teach or understand, for often what you think will win her back only drives her further away. ]]></description>
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<title>If You Don't Make Up Your Mind Now, You'll Hate Yourself Later</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2007 08:38:06 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[It is a problem that we face every day. Making decisions. We need to make choices every day, but everyone is too afraid to step out and choose, scared that they would make the 'wrong' choice. Why making choices is so important and what can you do to start becoming a man of choice will be discussed.]]></description>
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<title>5 Little Known Mistakes Ninety-Nine Percent Of Men Make With Women</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2007 08:32:08 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Women don't want a man that constantly says "you decide", "I don't know" and "whatever, you choose", they reek of being a little boy who can't make up his mind rather than a real man and giving her a response like this will really turn her off. If she asks something such as "where shall we go for diner", simply pick an option that you would like to do. If she opposes and wants to go somewhere else she will tell you. She asked you the question so it's up to you to make the decision, telling her "you choose" will only frustrate her greatly. ]]></description>
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<title>Should You Tell Her You Like Her?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2007 15:16:59 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Out of all the questions I'm asked this seems to be one of the most prominent, always rearing its head from guys with secret crushes on "this one lady" at work, school or even on the same train as them. Or perhaps they've been seeing someone for a while and are wondering if its the right time to tell her how much they love her. Lucky for you, if this is something you've been pondering recently or even in the past, its not such a difficult question to solve.]]></description>
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<title>3 Simple Steps to Daily Happiness</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Oct 2007 09:12:41 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[These three most simple techniques can bring you more joy in your life than ever before. Often forgotten by many, incorporating them into your life will make a huge difference to your state of wellbeing.]]></description>
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<title>Now You Can Achieve Anything Without Motivation</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 25 Sep 2007 08:41:20 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[What if all these self help motivation books really weren't needed, and you could accomplish anything you desire with absolutely not motivation in life? How would that make you feel? It would truly be inspiring, evolving and allow us all to get where we want to go in life without the need for 21 million motivational books to get us there. This is all entirely possible and peevishly simple, and there only 3 criteria you must meet...]]></description>
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<title>How to Stop Being Self Concious and Live a Happier Life</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/750003</link>
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<pubDate>Tue, 25 Sep 2007 08:26:18 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Do you care about what other people think of you? Are you concerned that some people don't like you? Do you hang on to what other people say, hoping that they might say something good about you and dreading if they say something bad about you? Thinking in this mindset is holding you back in more ways than you can imagine.]]></description>
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<title>Developing Your &quot;Inner Game&quot;</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 13:54:24 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[One of the most important part of dealing with women and becoming the best person you can be is developing your "inner game". Inner game is encompasses a wide variety of things: your mindsets, how you react to think, thought processes, to name a few. You will probably read a lot of things written by other experienced pimp soldiers trying to explain to you what their current mindsets are and what goes through their heads but unless you have experience with the topic, you probably will have a difficult time trying to understand what the writer is going on about. ...]]></description>
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<title>Social Barriers</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2007 12:50:11 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[We all have perfect game. I know you are awesome and have so many amazing things that women would love about you. From the Little quirks you have to the grand ideas about the future of the world, the government and everyone, you are destined for great things if only you could express yourself. The only problem is, nobody can see this, because of a multitude of social barriers we all employ within ourselves that stop our true selves from coming out.]]></description>
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<title>Your Emotions Hate You</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 07 Sep 2007 13:41:24 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA["Humans are logical beings" - a statement that is completely and utterly incorrect, we are mere slaves to our emotions and here is why. ]]></description>
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<title>Routines are Lifesavers</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2007 13:47:18 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Most people miss the point when they discover routines, thinking they are merely pickup lines in order to get a woman into the bedroom. This could not be further from the truth. ]]></description>
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<title>The Three Brain Theory</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2007 13:21:20 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[So you want to know why you just abused that guy in the car in front of you within a split second without logic coming in to play? Perhaps you want to know why you are attracted to certain men/women and not others? Or even why your dog does the crazy things he does? It all comes down to the three brain theory, explaining why we humans are the most evolved species on this planet yet still sometimes act like lizards and why we still make irrational decisions when we're in love, then think they are completely logical.]]></description>
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<title>What Women Really Want</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2007 08:51:23 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Since the dawn of time there has been a strange aura over women, that they are these alien creatures who no one truly understands what they want or desire. You're about to witness one of the biggest transformations of your life, as you finally understand and realize why women do the crazy things they do, what causes them to love bad boys and treat the nice guys like dirt, and finally you will understand "what women want".]]></description>
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<title>Give Me 5 Minutes and I'll Help You Get Over Any Worry</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 10:39:55 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Who wants to be a slave to their emotions? No one, so why would you live like you are now when there is a better way. ]]></description>
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<title>Wrestling With Your Emotions</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 13:43:12 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Who would have thought your emotions are holding  you back, learn how to take control and immediately start living a better life. ]]></description>
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<title>Self Development And Growth</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 10:40:17 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Through a simple 4 step process you can fix those issues causing the drama in your life. When starting out the the area of self development and growth, one of the most important and basic skills to learn is the skill to deal with issues in your life. ]]></description>
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<title>Logic vs Emotion - The Ultimate Battle</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 30 Aug 2007 08:17:43 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[You're talking to a girl. You want her to be attracted to you. I know! If I'm NICE to her and I show her that I'm a safe comfortable guy to be with, she will like me! Yes that's logical. I'd like to be with a safe comfortable girl. This just MAKES SENSE. In reality, this if far far from the truth.]]></description>
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<title>The Secret of Success</title>
<link>http://EzineArticles.com/709905</link>
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<pubDate>Thu, 30 Aug 2007 08:16:14 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[What is silver bullet syndrome? And how does it stop your success dead in its tracks?]]></description>
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<title>Basic Human Evolutionary Psychology</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 30 Aug 2007 08:08:15 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[Why are women so weird? Why do we do things we say we'll never do? Why do we always fall in love with those we shouldn't? All is revealed, just click.]]></description>
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<title>Is Everyone Really The Same?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 28 Aug 2007 08:51:38 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[So you think women are different and unique? Think again, with this mind bending article that shatters your beliefs about the world around you.]]></description>
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